Don't be afraid to show people what you feel, be yourself and don't mind them. Because you decide, and it's your LIFE.:)
Saturday, 30 November 2013
11.30
To the lovely 2013 December, (last month of we, being 21st yea?)
世上最快乐的人
不一定拥有世上一切最好的东西
他们只是珍惜人生道路上
遇到的每一样东西。
相信你做得到,你一定做到。:)
Thursday, 28 November 2013
Monday, 25 November 2013
11.25
'Each of us has a limited amount of time here on this earth, and the only truly lasting things that continue after we are gone, are the stories and memories of our existence in the minds of others. The stories told that really matter aren’t going to be about the kind of car you drove, the type of watch you wore, or whether or not your shoes had red bottoms.
They will be about your moral fiber, how you treated those around you, and how you chose to live your life to the absolute fullest.'
Thursday, 21 November 2013
11.21
从昨天到今天
我没有刻意去想叔叔去世的事
好像你不去想
事情就没有发生过一样
直到刚刚维芳跟我说他弟弟在报章上看到这个消息
这次叔叔真的走了
我回想
跟叔叔最深刻的记忆
是他带我和我弟和阿凯
一起去Aladdin吃炸鸡饭
那是我第一次去
也是最后一次和他一起去了
自从他轻微中风过后
也不怎么和大家说话了
生老病死
叔叔他是基督徒
相信此时此刻他在天堂吧
和上帝一起看着大家
我们爱你 武叔叔
我没有刻意去想叔叔去世的事
好像你不去想
事情就没有发生过一样
直到刚刚维芳跟我说他弟弟在报章上看到这个消息
这次叔叔真的走了
我回想
跟叔叔最深刻的记忆
是他带我和我弟和阿凯
一起去Aladdin吃炸鸡饭
那是我第一次去
也是最后一次和他一起去了
自从他轻微中风过后
也不怎么和大家说话了
生老病死
叔叔他是基督徒
相信此时此刻他在天堂吧
和上帝一起看着大家
我们爱你 武叔叔
Tuesday, 19 November 2013
11.19
昨晚
朋友sent一个link给我
内容是说男孩送走了母亲
说人们常常take something for granted
习惯了家人的存在
就忘了有一天他们会离开我们
我看了感触很深
临睡前还想起这个故事
今天下午
弟弟line我
说叔叔中风在手术室
打电话回家
爸爸说手术成功率只有10-20%
我傻了
想起两年前在这里接到婆婆去世的消息
真的傻了
爸爸听叔公说叔叔早上还买了2粒榴莲要给他们吃
心寒
在这里什么也帮不了忙
只能这里听那里听
上帝啊
不要把他带走
孩子们这么小
你怎么忍心呢
Please everyone who is reading this post, please pray for my uncle, he's currently in coma now.
Heavenly father, please be with him.
朋友sent一个link给我
内容是说男孩送走了母亲
说人们常常take something for granted
习惯了家人的存在
就忘了有一天他们会离开我们
我看了感触很深
临睡前还想起这个故事
今天下午
弟弟line我
说叔叔中风在手术室
打电话回家
爸爸说手术成功率只有10-20%
我傻了
想起两年前在这里接到婆婆去世的消息
真的傻了
爸爸听叔公说叔叔早上还买了2粒榴莲要给他们吃
心寒
在这里什么也帮不了忙
只能这里听那里听
上帝啊
不要把他带走
孩子们这么小
你怎么忍心呢
Please everyone who is reading this post, please pray for my uncle, he's currently in coma now.
Heavenly father, please be with him.
Sunday, 17 November 2013
11.17
Such a brilliant mindset. enjoy reading!
13 Things Mentally Strong People Don’t Do
1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves
Mentally strong people don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always easy or fair.
2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power
They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “My boss makes me feel bad,” because they understand that they are in control over their own emotions and they have a choice in how they respond.
3. They Don’t Shy Away from Change
Mentally strong people don’t try to avoid change. Instead, they welcome positive change and are willing to be flexible. They understand that change is inevitable and believe in their abilities to adapt.
4. They Don’t Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control
You won’t hear a mentally strong person complaining over lost luggage or traffic jams. Instead, they focus on what they can control in their lives. They recognize that sometimes, the only thing they can control is their attitude.
5. They Don’t Worry About Pleasing Everyone
Mentally strong people recognize that they don’t need to please everyone all the time. They’re not afraid to say no or speak up when necessary. They strive to be kind and fair, but can handle other people being upset if they didn’t make them happy.
6. They Don’t Fear Taking Calculated Risks
They don’t take reckless or foolish risks, but don’t mind taking calculated risks. Mentally strong people spend time weighing the risks and benefits before making a big decision, and they’re fully informed of the potential downsides before they take action.
7. They Don’t Dwell on the Past
Mentally strong people don’t waste time dwelling on the past and wishing things could be different. They acknowledge their past and can say what they’ve learned from it. However, they don’t constantly relive bad experiences or fantasize about the glory days. Instead, they live for the present and plan for the future.
8. They Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over
Mentally strong people accept responsibility for their behavior and learn from their past mistakes. As a result, they don’t keep repeating those mistakes over and over. Instead, they move on and make better decisions in the future.
9. They Don’t Resent Other People’s Success
Mentally strong people can appreciate and celebrate other people’s success in life. They don’t grow jealous or feel cheated when others surpass them. Instead, they recognize that success comes with hard work, and they are willing to work hard for their own chance at success.
10. They Don’t Give Up After the First Failure
Mentally strong people don’t view failure as a reason to give up. Instead, they use failure as an opportunity to grow and improve. They are willing to keep trying until they get it right.
11. They Don’t Fear Alone Time
Mentally strong people can tolerate being alone and they don’t fear silence. They aren’t afraid to be alone with their thoughts and they can use downtime to be productive. They enjoy their own company and aren’t dependent on others for companionship and entertainment all the time but instead can be happy alone.
12. They Don’t Feel the World Owes Them Anything
Mentally strong people don’t feel entitled to things in life. They weren’t born with a mentality that others would take care of them or that the world must give them something. Instead, they look for opportunities based on their own merits.
13. They Don’t Expect Immediate Results
Whether they are working on improving their health or getting a new business off the ground, mentally strong people don’t expect immediate results. Instead, they apply their skills and time to the best of their ability and understand that real change takes time.
Friday, 15 November 2013
11.15

Sea of Stars on Vaadhoo Island in the Maldives. Breathtaking. SOMEONE PLEASE BRING ME THERE!!!
Sunday, 10 November 2013
11.10
无意中看到一个高中同学的照片
他瘦了好多
也剃光头了
听人家说他得了白血病
还记得他以前动作都特别大
笑很大声讲话也很大声
就是一副天不怕地不怕的样子
真的
生命很无常
无常到你应该珍惜每一天
大家一起为他祷告
话说
世上除了生死
都是小事
从今天开始
每天微笑吧
不管遇到了什么烦心事
都不要自己为难自己
无论今天发生多么糟糕的事
都不应该感到悲伤
他瘦了好多
也剃光头了
听人家说他得了白血病
还记得他以前动作都特别大
笑很大声讲话也很大声
就是一副天不怕地不怕的样子
真的
生命很无常
无常到你应该珍惜每一天
大家一起为他祷告
话说
世上除了生死
都是小事
从今天开始
每天微笑吧
不管遇到了什么烦心事
都不要自己为难自己
无论今天发生多么糟糕的事
都不应该感到悲伤
Friday, 8 November 2013
11.8
I hate myself for watching 'we got married' FOR 3 HOURS. ARGHH.
There is one girl, who is disable, she sits on a wheelchair since first year (Different from the one I mentioned 2 years ago, the other girl graduated from bar school last year, and also got a first class degree). There is one lecturer, who always like to ask questions in our huge lecture theater, and kinda threatened us if he couldnt get a volunteer, he will pick people up. There are like 200 of us. There was one time, no volunteer, and he said he didnt know who to pick up since everyone was looking down on their notes, everyone avoided eyes-contact with him lol. So after 1 min of silence, the girl who sat on the wheelchair raised her hand, and voiced out her opinion leisurely. You know what I am trying to say right, 200 of us, who are normal person, couldntcompete with the disabled. I feel shame on myself. I looked at her that day, I saw confidence, that really matter.
There is one girl, who is disable, she sits on a wheelchair since first year (Different from the one I mentioned 2 years ago, the other girl graduated from bar school last year, and also got a first class degree). There is one lecturer, who always like to ask questions in our huge lecture theater, and kinda threatened us if he couldnt get a volunteer, he will pick people up. There are like 200 of us. There was one time, no volunteer, and he said he didnt know who to pick up since everyone was looking down on their notes, everyone avoided eyes-contact with him lol. So after 1 min of silence, the girl who sat on the wheelchair raised her hand, and voiced out her opinion leisurely. You know what I am trying to say right, 200 of us, who are normal person, couldntcompete with the disabled. I feel shame on myself. I looked at her that day, I saw confidence, that really matter.
Sunday, 3 November 2013
11.3
Hello guys! Happy November! This gonna be a good start so first thing i will do tomorrow, is wake up at 830 instead of 9! I am not going to spend more than 8 hours on sleeping, promise! Shu King u made my day, a freaking touch facebook post and the treasured comment. My friend said i am really lucky enough to have such a good friend here in Cardiff, yea i know, I am the real lucky one :') gonna update you every bits of life, no worries! And and, my bro just graduated today! I am so so proud of him, and you know, I always think that I am not a good sister, over-concentrated on academic studies and ignored my bro. I pray that he will find his way, god please be with him :) oYA, you know what, I was so happy that my manager texted me to work last night, like really happy. Bcoz of the food there lol, i guess I am really fed up with my self- cooking. The only thing i could think of while having the meals was: GRATEFUL. I love the restaurant, every inch of it. Let's start this 2013 November with love people! May November treats us all good!
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